Understanding Fear

Fear is a naturally occurring, common biological helpmate seemingly designed into the fabric of the universe to insure the best chances of our survival. With a limited perspective and the inability to know anything for certain, fear can seemingly be a helpful emotion when it protects us from some danger or harm. Sometimes the fear is excessive or irrational. This should be dealt with.

Almost every fear has some well founded reason for avoidance:

If you fear flying in airplanes. It is because you know that you can have a dramatic horrifying crash and be injured or killed.

If you fear needles you realize that you can gain disease or illness and may feel pain.

If you fear the sight of blood it is only because you realize that blood many times accompanies pain and is normally involved or associated with tragedies.

If you fear public speaking you realize how badly you can embarrass yourself or send your career plummeting into an unrecoverable oblivion by your failures to speak in a productive way.

These things are all real and all the thoughts of your fears are possible, yes, even likely. I will not tell you that they are not. Many counselors will help you to utilize tools that will most likely get you past difficult times by offering bandages to help you cope so that things turn out ok.

What my counsel does is far more than that. Through an understanding of perspectives and heightened conscious, I can help you to develop tools and insights that will actually serve you by giving you previously unrealized abilities to properly assign priorities in your life and realize how in most all cases people set their lives up for themselves in ways that if certain failures come to them from result of their own action or through the actions of others all help is hopelessly lost from that point forth. Yes, they created a volatile structure for their life which will inevitably fail. This comes from unrealistic expectations and weak perspectives and perceptions.

What they have done is set up an unrealistic vision of an end goal that is all about physical circumstances and prolonged assurances of the best possible on going pleasures being achieved for them in their lives. When anything hampers this path including failure of ones chosen and implemented plan that may seem to work for another but does not work for themselves, failing, they become lost and during later point in their lives may find it seems too late to start over or redesigned the whole life perspective because for so long it has been associated with having a long journey in order to achieve it and the time and building blocks necessary to rebuild as they did originally are not accessible any longer.

A feeling of failure and ineptness can overwhelm the individual and positive momentum ability for growth then stalls. In many cases with out help this becomes a Psycho Social crisis for the individual and they stay in that in effectual weakened state for the rest of their lives as it steps in to control every aspect of their conscious and slowly is allowed to re-guide every facet of their lives until the end of their days.

My counsel can help in overcoming the initial feelings that one often has that it would be impossible to rebuild in the same difficult ways that one once built through there lives all over again my bit be possible but I can also show you how it is also unnecessary. By changing your perspective to one that is suited to encouraging your own self growth potential and is harmonious to the things that are inherently designed into the fabric of the universe to help and promote your most well being state, you can become free far beyond your previous levels and limited realizations. You can realize that what you were afraid to lose and that originally caused your debilitations realities were not worthy of being elevated to the levels you had in the first place.

The way you relate to your own visions of success in the choices and laying out of your pathways is so infinitely important though many make all the crucial decisions based on whims, misunderstanding, dimmed intellects and a total lack of healthy vision which comes from a well developed conscious. By the time your self made problems and those added on to you by the world have completely consumed you beyond your ability to cope, it is too late.

To build back up to your failed state and once traveled paths as many councilors may offer to assist you to do, would still be shortsighted at best. I intend to help you through my counsel to rebuild from scratch the new paths through tools that you use to guide your life so that you escape the current trap you perceive you are in but also never again fall into the same predicaments.

When irrational fears becomes intense, one avoids the feared object or situation. Sometimes this avoidance behavior begins to interfere with their daily routine. The more one avoids feeling the fear, the stronger the avoidance behavior can become. It is easy to see how eventually someone might not travel in ways that they perceive dangerous even if it meant closing a very important business deal or would never go into a hospital even to visit a loved one. When things like this happen it should be a sign to reevaluate what you are doing but more importantly it can be a sign that your perspectives and involving the setting up and the initial prioritizing of your life's objectives was riddled with shortcomings and faulty from the beginning.

Fear is real. I will not help you to avoid fear. I will help you to change your objectives and views so that fears that are common will not intervene in your life as anything more than a helpless symbol that actually serves you as a guide post. Your goals and directions will be far different than that of those around you and when this happens you will not fall into the same traps that are commonly made available to that of the common populous.

Through my counsel you will learn to travel in a different way and on different paths you can not only learn to see what others fall for but avoid the easily recognized pitfalls for your own life. Perspective is all that is necessary for this type of self help but how does one gain that perspective. I can council you on how you can achieve a very heightened conscious capable of fathoming the infinite and seeing well past the trappings of the majority of people and the way they run their lives in tandem with the overly simplified and blinded fallen approaches common to man.

Through the enhanced mentality my counsel and methods can bring, you will gain insights and tools that can help you through intellect and proper perspective shifts to navigate past areas that are commonly problematic for most. Fear will then only result when you are off your path so as to act as a guiding sign post only. Thus fear can be made to serve and be a friend only. Remember those who can say that fear is a friend have conquered fear not through concurring but once again by application and understanding through proper perspective.

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