My counsel can offer and understanding of more effective communication skills, aid in understanding different styles of interacting, and equip families and couples with the tools and perspectives that they need to develop healthier, more positive relationships.
My counsel can also provide an objective third person to negotiate difficult issues but each member of the party counseled must realize in the case of my particular services, that nothing will be able to be accomplished through my methods until a joint unison perspective is formulated and agreed upon by all members of the party.
My counsel can help in many areas:
Learning to communicate effectively so that others will listen when I express myself. Tools necessary to develop effective self expression, and aid in one's ability to identify and express feelings, and insights as well a new found abilities to control and understand what to do with one's feelings will be focused on through my counsel.
Skill development in conflict resolution can help one get what is needed while valuing the other individuals involved through respect will be covered.
Learning and understanding how and when self boundaries should be set to protect the self and relationships is important.
Divorce counseling can help with understanding when a marriage is really broken or maybe not even a marriage at all in the true sense of the word. Perspective first is most crucial.
My counsel will help you to ask the right questions and develop tools and the highly developed conscious necessary to help you determine what can be done to save a marriage. If divorce was chosen how to minimize harm to yourself, and each other as well as children and others involved in your life.
My counsel will help with insights on how you can heal after a broken trust and not fall victim to being in a place again when you must be so vulnerable as to have the need to count on another and rely completely on trust ever again. Trust is something that you can and should come to understand it is best to reserve for yourself and God only.
My counsel can help you to learn from mistakes and identify things that you never understood or realized that may have brought you to where you are currently. I can show you how to move past and rework the entire ordeal with a new perspective from the beginning.
My counsel can help with understanding and mastering anger management and how you can learn to avoid it ever getting to a dangerous place that is passed fear and confusion, where it ideally should have been stopped so that you become angry in the first place. I can help you to become aware how maintaining anger inside, or ignoring it can be just as destructive to a relationship as expressing it outwardly with out restraint.
I can help you to develop perspectives on your sex life that will help you to stop making comparisons and evaluations that are worthless in regards to helping you. I can start you toward developing a better understanding of why you even want any thing at all and what can be done to deal with your urges.
When one person has had an affair I can help both sides with perspectives that can lead them on any path they chose appropriate for themselves.
I can help people to understand why pornography is all prevalent and how it can be understood and seen for what it is, a mere litmus test afforded to society to see how they are handling the issues of the populous in world at any given time. Through the proper understanding of it, perspectives can over come the dull ignorance that most view it with.
I can help with parenting issues and difficult children. Discipline, verses turning over the controls to the individual themselves and teaching them to live with their own choices and develop personal responsibility for better or for worse will be delved into and new perspectives and tools you forge for your pathfinding and your own unique needs can lead the way on your path, aided by higher conscious awareness and mentality that will well up from a renewed intellect through valuable perception strength.
Families with special needs family members is among the most difficult for one to cope with and guide effectively but mostly because one assumes the controls with the idea and aim to have and offer a normal life at all costs. When new perspectives can be achieved to help guide one into uncommon paths that can prove lucrative in and of their own design far away from comparisons and designs based on them that so many fall victim to. My counsel can help with these areas and others.
I first found my self in the position to council at the tender age of 5 or 6. Yes, I know that probably sounds absurd to many but I realized even then that I had a gift and a place in the area of counseling through an enhanced consciousness that was entwined within me and in harmony with the intrinsic design of the universe and my mental connection with it through my conscious awareness increased and became shown to me as I was able to help my parents to get past things that had them trapped with in the confines of there violent and emotional misaligned relationship. I saved them from violence and talked with them later about the pitfalls of divorce amid the short comings they would forever be placing upon there life scrolls if they did not overcome. I was 8 at that time and I saw that I was singularly the most consciously aware individual that I knew of and have since ever known and if they was a way to go back in time and measure I believe it would be found that my unique inherent ability to develop tools and form unique perspectives that could up lift my conscious state and intellect to unprecedented levels is something seldom found in any individual anywhere. I want to share that with you.
I had a teacher that, for one reason or another, became overly concerned that I was painting pictures in first and second grade that were all black. Maybe I just liked the shine of the crayons or the gloss of the water on the paper, as it may have showed a stronger reflective watery sheen with black than with other colors on the paper. Regardless my teachers concerns were expressed to my equally concerned parents and so they had me tested thoroughly. Through serious psychiatric testing and counseling at age 7-8 I was informed that I had a near genius IQ.
Since then I put two and two together and decided that my life's perspectives would be from then on, all about development and understanding as to why I was placed as who I was in life in the first place and understanding what causes a person to take a stance of knowing about that of another. I did not immediately find my place and triumph over all outside factors that would indeed inhibit my progression to where it was meant to go but one thing I did gain access to was an awareness that my own conscious was the most valuable thing I possessed and I held a heightened awareness from that point on as I developed my mind and body into an instrument that would be most qualified to help.
Through special further analytic abilities I developed and taught myself I guided my life safely through outfalls that encircle and pull down most people with in the common populous. It was not until marriage and the additional steps I was willing to take to merge with the required joint mentality and life sharing with another individual and the time that then came where I would have to begin to teach and help my own children to understand these deep seated abilities that would come to them only with conscious effort and focus on their part as well. The gelling of consciously having to find the words for what I had dealt with and the wring of the book with my wife and guidance personal responsibility feel to my children and mankind as a whole has taken on a full finalized development finalization at this stage of my life.
Through my counsel the first thing you may find odd is that I know that I know nothing. The very first thing one might think is well then how can you possibly help me? The answer to that is simple. The things people think they know and act on as if they really did know them when in reality they do not know them is the number one root cause for all human problems. Some call it "Evil." I am talking about knowledge or perception used as certainty and knowing and the negative ramifications that come from it. Remember through the Bible we have head it described as our short comings came from eating of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. This was a symbol that can help you to understand what I am talking about. It is the knowledge and the belief that various people have over one another that causes all strife and all matter of problems in-the world. The roads to peace and the best highest conscious peaceful perspectives do not come from this knowledge but avoid it. A pure understanding and practical guidance for you based on this incredibly rare understanding is among the tools I offer to you. Your perspective shift will begin here.
The ability to go all the way back to nothingness and build forward objectively utilizing methods completely foreign to the normal failures of mankind is the key. Few can do it because almost all self guidance grows out of motivation. Motivation come from comparisons and pain verses pleasure responses. These things are overwhelmingly found in common in all man kind. To develop out side of them and to even understand the need and the benefit is so uncommon that the only way I have been able to et through life is entirely on my own. I have never met another person who shares my path or my perspectives. I have realized through time that it is the most valuable thing that I have ant the one thing that I was created to offer to man kind. Thus I began my life transformation to place this first and foremost in front of my as my path and main objective in life. The uncommonness and purity of this approach is where the strengths in it originate.
In addition to my uncommon abilities and background I have also shared a similar common back ground with many people. I have been married over 20 years and raising children for over 11. I am a follower of the teachings of Christ or a Christian you might say though the name has become so tarnished I hesitate to use it. My many life experiences coupled with my creative artist communications history and analytical abilities and uniquely forged paths uncommon to others contribute to my ability to understand and guide you through difficult situations.
